How to add the sex desire for women?

How to add the sex desire for women?
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"Women need at least 10 to 15 minutes of warm up; ironically the same length of the average sexual encounter." So the men's behavior will be very important for the women to increase the sex desire and also prolong sex time. Positive sexual anticipation is one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs you will ever come across. Negative sexual anticipation is also as powerful and will zap any sexual spark in a nanosecond. So it goes without saying that this seemingly insignificant thing called sexual desire can make or break good sex. In fact, the number one reason long-term couples in North America stop having sex is a lack of sexual desire.

You waited with bated breath to see, touch, smell, rip clothes off and have wild sex. Because you spent hours positively anticipating sex, by the time you had that wonderful sex you were instantly aroused. Now compare that with your thoughts if sex were initiated today. For too many women "foreplay" becomes days of anxiety, walking on egg shells and wondering when sex will be initiated.

When the sex is initiated, the ability to get sexually aroused takes twice as long (if it happens at all) because she has to get out of her negative thought pattern and into feeling the positive pleasures of her body. Women need at least 10 to 15 minutes of warm up; ironically the same length of the average sexual encounter. Suddenly, the sex is over and she hasn’t had a chance to enjoy herself. Even if she had an orgasm this can create an even deeper resentment towards any future sex act.


As sex is a team sport, it's up to both of you to make a concerted effort to persevere and bring the fun back into your marriage. Here are five suggestions to get you started:

1. Good Sex Starts Outside The Bedroom
A little intimacy, affection and touch will go a long way to help a couple easily segue into the bedroom. Make sure to look for ways to have 10 positive and affectionate moments every day.

2. Talk Positively About Sex
Be aware of how sex is communicated between the two of you. Being able to inject some fun, flirty chat into your daily conversation—perhaps about a future sexual encounter—is a simple way to create new, positive sex feelings.

3. Take Turns Planning Out Fun Sex
Too many couples walk into the bedroom without a plan and have the same old (yawn) sex. Variety is the sexy spice of life and will do a lot to enhance your sexual desire. And it’s only fair you take turns initiating new ideas.

Remember, efforts don’t have to be huge: a massage, bath or candles is a nice touch to add flavor to your experience.

4. Understand What You Want Out of the Experience and Communicate that to Your Partner
To help your partner plan out a fun sex evening, let them know what you would like to do. Great idea: Both of you can fill out a "sex wish list" and give it to your partner. Simply exchanging this list will get you all juiced up.

5. Plan an "All About Your Partner" Evening Where You Spoil Them
Once in a while (every few months) think of something nice you can do for your partner. Spoiling your spouse is definitely a win/win proposition on so many relationship levels. Best is when you can tease your partner about what you plan to do—for days.

Creating positive sexual desire doesn’t have to be complicated, although it might take a little time. See for yourself how positively anticipating sex can completely turn your sex life around.